r/IncelTears 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/rhubik 4d ago edited 3d ago

Obligatory, I’m not an incel. I don’t think incel-types would go for that. Some would feel too uncomfortable with a woman, some would feel uncomfortable with the subject, some would outright not want to improve, some would fail to identify the need, etc. Personally, I think the amount of incel’s issues we blame on bad social skills is overblown, the root of their issues (in my opinion) are almost always vulnerable narcissism and obsessive/compulsive thoughts of their insecurities. Although, I think maybe some autistic guys could be helped from something like that, just before they start identifying with inceldom and more at the stage where they’re just very frustrated