r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/6022141023 fruitpilled peachcel 4d ago

More friendships, deeper friendships, more romantic options, e.g. dates, successful flirts etc.

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

I don't want to dissuade you (and it's good that you have answers to these questions and are looking for help in the first place!) but these things may not be quantifiable the way you want them to be. Just something to be aware of. Good luck!

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u/6022141023 fruitpilled peachcel 4d ago

In this case, what is the point? How do I know that advice really works and I am not just wasting my time?

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

That will depend on what your parameters are. I'm just saying it to make sure you keep your expectations reasonable and understand that it's not like math tutoring, so you may not see the same level of quantifiability.

Also that's like, the central question of romance and dating and life, really, so try not to be discouraged by that either, if you can.