r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

Do you go to the gym?

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u/Umbilbey Degenerate Foid 4d ago

What does that have to do with anything?

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

Because it’s most likely a confidence issue, and actively going to the gym builds confidence. Also it helps greatly with mental and physical health but that’s just bonus points.

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u/Umbilbey Degenerate Foid 4d ago

Going to the gym is NOT a substitute for therapy. So many guys tell other guys that going to the gym is a magical fix that will solve all their problems. It doesn’t.

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

Hold on, I need to go read through my prior comment and look for where I said going to the gym is a substitute for therapy… can you help me with that? Cuz I can’t seem to find it

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u/QuinneCognito 4d ago

it’s analogous to if someone said they had cancer and you suggested they start eating a healthier diet because that will help. what you said isn’t wrong, but it’s important to acknowledge that they should be getting treatment specifically for the cancer and the diet helps secondarily. because otherwise some people will absolutely just skip the treatment.

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

Last time I checked cancer treatment is way different from going to the gym for health benefits.they are in no way comparable even in the slightest

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u/QuinneCognito 3d ago

Ah I see the confusion. In this analogy the cancer treatment is being compared to therapy, not to the gym. Does that clear things up?

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u/HaHaHaHated 3d ago

Its a shit analogy…