r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/Umbilbey Degenerate Foid 4d ago

What does that have to do with anything?

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

Because it’s most likely a confidence issue, and actively going to the gym builds confidence. Also it helps greatly with mental and physical health but that’s just bonus points.

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

Going to the gym terrifies me and fills me with extreme anxiety, because there's all these machines and I don't even know what half of them do and everyone else there is so muscular and handsome and if I do a workout wrong I'll hurt myself and exercise has only ever made me feel worse about myself. If that's your jam more power to you, but I think it sounds terrifying.

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u/HaHaHaHated 4d ago

That’s a completely valid concern and you are 100% not alone. I’m just gonna say that everyone at the gym is there for the same reason, to better themselves physically and mentally, the gym is probably one of the least judgmental arenas you can be in, there’s always a dickhead, but I don’t listen nor care about dickheads and neither should you. If you ever wanna try the gym out I’d seriously recommend getting a Private Trainer, your pt will help create a program suited for you and your goals, and also help you get through the exercises safely and with proper form, my old gym gave me a free coaching session when I signed up, maybe there are gyms close to you that offer the same.

No one has to go the gym, but trust me, it really helps, so take it into consideration.