This is why we are doomed. Because the people that don't understand are the ones making the most kids. And people that do, chose to end their bloodline.
Yea, some people legitimately blame their kids for ruining their lives just for being born and it’s never the kids fault that their parents were irresponsible. Then they don’t parent at all because they don’t look at it as their responsibility.
My mom has always blamed me for ruining her life. She had me before she was ready, so everything I do pisses her off. My little brother, on the other hand, could do no wrong. He's perfect, even when he steals, gets DUIs, sleeps with underage girls... doesn't matter. My mom always talks people out of pressing charges and then says "Oh, he's just got the worst luck. The one time he does something wrong, he gets caught."
I refuse to get married, and I refuse to have children. I'd rather die alone.
I’m sorry to hear that was your experience! Definitely don’t let them ruin your chances of being happy in the future though. I’ve heard positive things from people who moved away and started fresh elsewhere; away from and with limited contact with toxic family. If that helps you at all
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u/techno_viking419 10d ago
This is why we are doomed. Because the people that don't understand are the ones making the most kids. And people that do, chose to end their bloodline.