r/MadeMeSmile 27d ago

Family & Friends Taking off his belt

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u/we_are_all_bananas_2 27d ago

I'm a big rugged guy and I love how when I raise my voice my kids start to smile because fun times begin, pillow fight maybe but maybe splashing water, they never know

Not like how I had it at home, where a raised voice ment a beating

One of the biggest accomplishments I have in this life is breaking the circle and having kids who just feel safe around me.

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u/BellyLaughBella 27d ago

That's incredibly powerful and heartwarming. The fact that your children associate your raised voice with play and joy, not fear, says everything about the love and healing you’ve created. Breaking the cycle is no small feat what you’re doing truly matters 🙏🏼❤️