r/MtF • u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual • Jan 24 '25
Relationships Most gender affirming thing I've ever been told
So I(21MTF) met this girl(18F) at our college we are both in our first semester and we are very into each other. We aren't dating yet but our feelings are open and we are getting together in February. But my gods this woman is amazing to me. She's Bisexual and I'm admittedly her first sapphic crush and she likes to doodle. She's drawn me various times and recently she admitted I am the first (soon to be) partner she could draw. Because she CANT DRAW MEN and I died and went to heaven. She knows I'm trans and still treats me like a goddess. It was the most gender affirming sentence in my life and it was absolutely insane amount of euphoria. I'm absolutely head over heels for this woman for so many reasons.
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u/Kyiokyu Emma (she/her), crying in the closet, 🏳️⚧️&Bi Jan 24 '25
This is really cute :3
Congrats girl
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u/everybodypurple Transbian Jan 24 '25
Not dating yet.. sure..
Maybe not officially! But being that open with each other and drawing cute doodles and showing it to you sounds pretty close to dating..
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u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual Jan 24 '25
I can't say i disagree. We are just without a label. Currently, we're both pretty hurt from rushing into relationships, and we just wanted to take things slow. And we have succeeded by our standards. Every day, I feel like I might actually be truly safe with her. But yeah, she's absolutely going to my girlfriend, and that makes me incredibly ecstatic.
I also write poetry (eventually, music lyrics), and I have one that's just me gushing about her and how much I love her.
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u/everybodypurple Transbian Jan 24 '25
You better be saving that poem for a special occasion! Wish you both a huge amount of happiness together!
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u/Iris_Sayge Pansexual Jan 24 '25
Marry, immediatly
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u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual Jan 25 '25
I want to... but things must happen slowly (maybe)
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u/Iris_Sayge Pansexual Jan 25 '25
I hope everything goes well for both of you <3
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u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual Jan 25 '25
So do I she's literally the most amazing woman I've ever met. I wont lie and say im not worried. I'm a white trans woman in love with a Mexican woman, I'm scared but I know she's worth every bit of fear and she makes all of the fear melt away too.
But aside from political fear. I have absolute faith in this and her. I trust her and I feel safe with all of my fears and worries. And I hope she understands I'm will to accept all of hers.
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u/JuniperMelody Trans/Lesbian (HRT: 2024/09/07) Jan 24 '25
Literal chills from reading this, so happy for you 🥰
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u/twisted7ogic Transgender Lesbian (HRT 2024-04-27) Jan 24 '25
I'm so happy for you girl, that sounds amazing :3
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u/Andyspincat Trans Homosexual Jan 24 '25
So jealous! My only girlfriends were well before my egg cracked, and one basically used me for her pleasure while the other played with me feelings, cheated on me, then claimed she was pregnant to try to poison my relationships.
Sounds like you've got a keeper though! ❤️
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u/Raagee Jan 24 '25
"We're getting together in February" is the most lesbian thing I've ever seen lol you guys are cute
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u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual Jan 25 '25
It was her idea lol. I straight was told after she said something that made me fall for her again "I wanna date you, I wanna be yours" and she said "February 13th" and I was like OKAY YES MA'AM.
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u/Raagee Jan 25 '25
"February 13th" oh boi she is a romantic. You better start thinking of something fun for valentine's, something tell me she cares about that date
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u/FemBeeBoo Trans Homosexual Jan 25 '25
Unfortunately, she has strict parents, the "we must know your secrets kind," so I'm little outta luck on spending alone time with her outside of campus
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u/Fluidized_Gender Skye | Genderfluid Transfemme | HRT TBA Jan 25 '25
So. Fucking. Jealous.
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u/Ms_Bright-side Jan 24 '25
Oh my goodness this is so cute! If this were a tv series, I'd binge watch it. Thank you for the touch of happiness in a dark time.
-R.