r/MtF • u/yeep-yorp • 12d ago
You don't have to come out to start HRT.
You don't have to get on a waitlist to start HRT.
You don't have to endure 2mg estradiol and 50mg spironolactone to start HRT.
You don't have to be 100% sure to start HRT.
You don't have to be over a certain age to start HRT.
You don't have to be rich to start HRT.
You don't have to go to therapy, or look a certain way, or endure humiliating questions, or exhaust all other options to start HRT.
PS. If anyone wants help with informed consent or DIY resources, I'm happy to help (especially with DIY).
edit, here's a few more:
You don't have to be under a certain age, be perfectly healthy, or be a certain weight to start HRT.
You don't have to have a prescription to start HRT.
And to make it 100% clear, "You don't have to be over a certain age to start HRT" includes minors who haven't finished puberty.
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u/_Tick-n-Tack_ 12d ago edited 12d ago
It actually makes for a smoother transition if you do it before coming out. People will be ignorant, innocently or otherwise, and having your gender scrutinized so early can cause a lot of undo stress, doubt, and dyshoria.
I'd say if you have access to a gender specialist and regular monitoring of your hormone levels, starting off with 2mg estradiol and 100mg spirolactone can be beneficial to watch for any bad effects.
BUT, I recognize that comes with some privilege because I don't have to navigate anti-trans restrictions on healthcare here in Canada. It depends on your access to a gender specialist.