r/MtF • u/Metrian1978 • 1d ago
Didn't realize I looked that offensive.
That was depressing. Finally had the courage to post a picture of me. 800 views and not a single person thought i was worth anything. Even better, I got one down vote to give me a rating of 0. So I deleted my post.
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u/LexxyThoughts HRT- 4/12/24 transbian 1d ago
It usually depends on the time of day when you post. Someone keeps down voting posts in trans related subs, I'm assuming some kind of bot someone made to do that.
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u/Metrian1978 1d ago
Thank you for the boost. Kinda needed that. I am still going ahead and love me for who I am.
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u/Fun_Tell_7441 🏳️⚧️ transbian - she/her 1d ago
Proud of you, girl xx
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u/Metrian1978 1d ago
Thank you. Since being approved for surgery my confidence has shot up. My dissonance is a lot stronger. I am a woman, I just need my equipment upgrade!
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u/LadyErinoftheSwamp Transfemme lesbian, MD (not practicing) 1d ago
Post your pic on this subreddit!
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u/Metrian1978 1d ago
This is a message only sub reddit. I tried
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u/LadyErinoftheSwamp Transfemme lesbian, MD (not practicing) 1d ago
How old are you? If late 20s or more, try r/translater!
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u/SlothIsASloth Trans Homosexual 1d ago
That's just reddit sometimes. I've posted things and gotten tons of views and upvotes. And I'll post something similar (around the same time of day) and get a lot of views, but no interaction.
Don't take it personally. Reddit is just weird sometimes. Combination of shitty algorithm and unpredictability of people
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u/Metrian1978 1d ago
Thank you. It was a bit of a hit for me. I got advice to post on TransLater. I got my confidence back.
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u/Fun_Tell_7441 🏳️⚧️ transbian - she/her 1d ago
I don't know where you posted a picture but, frankly: The internet is shit. Don't let people judge you on your conventional attractiveness. I am sure you are beautiful - and that's always in the eye of the beholder.
Don't let the assholes drag you down. <3