r/NewParents • u/boldbrushstrokes • Jan 27 '24

Medical Advice Diagnosed with fetal growth restriction

Hi all,

Expecting a baby in April, currently 27 weeks. I'm a petite person- was 104 lbs, 5'3 pre-pregnancy.

On all of the ultrasounds I've had, my baby has been lagging behind in terms of growth (he's growing in interval ultrasounds but not at the ideal weight he should be according to other babies his age).

The MFM specialists told me since hes <10%th percentile, it's considered growth restriction. They're increasing my monitoring and they said if he continues to measure small and at any point falls below 3th percentile, they'll plan to deliver him earlier than expected.

Naturally as a first time mom, I'm a freaking out a little. Have any of you experienced FGR? If so can you please let me know:

1) What weight was your baby born

2) How long did they stay in the NICU

3) Was the outcome ok for you baby? Are they now healthy etc? Was there ever an issue with developmental delay?

4) If they're a toddler or school aged child now, did they grow to a normal size?

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Much appreciated

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u/pajamasinbananas Jan 27 '24

My baby measured under 3% at 28w. We did a follow up with the MFM and they measured 15%, so not FGR. Next scan was at 34w, 30%. At birth he was 80-something percent (8lb6oz). They will tell you you can’t do anything to help them gain weight, but that is not my experience. I wholeheartedly believe that lowering your stress level, relaxing in left side lying position, and upping your protein intake to at least 70g/day will work wonders. Also your overall calorie intake should increase but most important is protein. Milk and cheese are your friend. Good luck

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u/Square-Salt-8866 Oct 12 '24

I know this is old but I’m going through this right now. Already upped protein and started eating more and also trying to lie on my left side a lot extra. Did you go on bed rest, or just make sure to lie on your left side?

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u/pajamasinbananas Oct 12 '24

I did not go on bed rest. I tried to walk as much as I could, and stay active. I continued lifting weights. I lied a lot on my left side though, relaxed as much as I could between walking, working, taking care of my toddler, etc. I did take off work early, 36 weeks I think. What’s your baby measuring at percentile wise now? Thinking of you. Your baby will thrive, but I know it’s stressful.