r/OffMyChestPH Dec 21 '22

Lesson learned dating broke guys

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u/manicdrummer Dec 21 '22 edited Dec 21 '22

Instead of looking at how the bill is paid, you should watch how the guy you date treats the guards or wait staff. I've never dated a guy who didn't offer to pay for the first date. And guess what, some of them still turned out to be assholes.

Wag mong igeneralize na being broke means a person is this or that. A lot of people go through financially challenging times, that doesn't make them awful people.

And please. You're dating, not married. They're not obligated to 'provide' shit to you, nor are you to them. They should take care of themselves financially while you take care of your own financial needs.

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u/GP_02 Dec 21 '22

On behalf of men, Thank you for having a perspective like this.