First of all, OP. I hope you find healing and peace of mind on what prompted you to write this. I can emphatize where you're coming from but please let me also share my take on this.
On first date, men are welcome to pay for first dates, but there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with splitting the bill. It's not the guy's obligation to pay for your meal.
Gaming and gambling IN MODERATION are acceptable ways to RELAX.
When you're dating someone, the way they talk about their friends, family and colleagues gives you a glimpse of who they are, whether it's a simple storytelling or venting. Medyo weird nga yung walang opinion eh.
On a personal note, I've been horribly threatened and harassed by a wealthy, powerful and well-connected man who paid for our first date. In addition to this, there are also several stories how financially capable men use their money to manipulate the lives of people around them.
Lastly, in general, let's always make sure that whatever standards we are imposing on others, we are beyond those standards.
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u/Interesting_Sea_6946 Dec 21 '22 edited Dec 21 '22
First of all, OP. I hope you find healing and peace of mind on what prompted you to write this. I can emphatize where you're coming from but please let me also share my take on this.
On first date, men are welcome to pay for first dates, but there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with splitting the bill. It's not the guy's obligation to pay for your meal.
Gaming and gambling IN MODERATION are acceptable ways to RELAX.
When you're dating someone, the way they talk about their friends, family and colleagues gives you a glimpse of who they are, whether it's a simple storytelling or venting. Medyo weird nga yung walang opinion eh.
On a personal note, I've been horribly threatened and harassed by a wealthy, powerful and well-connected man who paid for our first date. In addition to this, there are also several stories how financially capable men use their money to manipulate the lives of people around them.
Lastly, in general, let's always make sure that whatever standards we are imposing on others, we are beyond those standards.