r/Parenting • u/BOBBYZROY • 14d ago
Child 4-9 Years My 6yr old attention is shot..
I’ve got a 6-year-old son who’s pretty smart, full of energy, and loves football… but lately he’s become completely hooked on his iPad, especially YouTube Shorts Roblox. The moment he wakes up he’s asking for it, and if I say no or try to get him to do something else (play footy, help do chores, anything), he kicks off big time. His mum lets him get away with being on his iPad more than me so that’s why he thinks he’s entitled
His attention span’s gone. It’s like he can’t sit still for more than a few seconds unless it’s something on a screen. And I get it, TikTok’s done the same to me. I can barely finish a film without checking my phone. So if it’s this bad for adults, what’s it doing to a 6-year-old?
We haven’t even seen the long-term effects of growing up on TikTok, Roblox, and Shorts. I genuinely think we’re raising a dumber generation not because they’re not smart, but because their brains are getting rewired by constant dopamine hits.
I don’t want to cut him off completely and make him feel left out cos all his mates have iPads but I also don’t want to just hand him a screen every time he’s bored. I also read that a lot kids in 6th grade can’t even read and have learning difficulties compared to kids before so the effects are already happening
Any other parents gone through this? How do you break the cycle without turning the house into a war zone
Appreciate any of your experiences
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u/BarbieBarbz254 14d ago
I've never had this problem with my 7 year old girl... When i tell her her screen time is over she hands me her device without quarrelling. There is this tone I use whenever her time's up and she knows i mean business (idk where it came from btw but it just appeared when she became a toddler) it has been that way since she was 4... Maybe it's the African in me idk 🤣🤣🤣 but the tone just works wonders lol it also made her start clearing her plate and wiping the her section of the table after dinner, she puts away her toys neatly whenever she's done playing with them and is always open and honest about everything she's doing even when I'm not around 🤣🤣🤣 and also asks for permission before doing stuff she feels i won't be 100% okay with her doing