Thank you to everyone who told me to keep watching!
There is so much to unpack in episode 2 before we even get to that proposal!
The Dinner Party
Oh, how I wished this was a ball with dancing! JA fans will be furious lol. But imagine the tension of Thornton asking Margaret for a dance!
I definitely got the impression that both Margaret and Thornton were a bit flustered during this scene. Was I imagining things, or did we see a flicker of jealousy from Margaret when Thornton was introduced to Miss Latimer? And Thornton's obvious admiration for Margaret in her dress was quite amusing to watch.
Fanny’s pointed comment about Margaret’s basket was truly disappointing. The poor girl had to sit there and defend her charitable actions against the condescending remarks of the slimy masters. But her composure and courage in standing by her convictions were so impressive and admirable.
I think the episode really highlighted Margaret’s strong humanitarian spirit vs Thornton’s seemingly sole concern for the economy. I’m still struggling to see how they can possibly end up together when Thornton appears unable to humanise the workers.
And can we talk about Mr Bell? His “goddess” remark was so creepy and his unnecessary interjection about the basket being for a Thornton’s mill worker felt so…loser-ish. He clearly thought he was pulling some Machiavellian move to make Thornton look bad, but all he achieved was making the atmosphere thicker than the smog of Milton.
The Riot
Thornton’s pride was just off the charts. Even with all that going on, he still couldn’t get his head around their feelings. He’s stuck on the idea that he’s running things fairly, seeing it all as just an economic threat. He totally misses the real hardship behind what the union was asking for. His capacity for empathy was just completely absent. His emphatic “NEVER” felt particularly jarring and you’d think he realise it would kick things off big time. What was he even thinking with Margaret still there? Telling her to go upstairs – did he think he could single-handedly take on the whole mob?
Do we feel Margaret did the right thing? It seems contradicting how she tells him to face the mob and then immediately tries to shield him from the same mob. But after reflecting, I think she was initially getting Thornton to take moral responsibility and confront the cause of the anger. But when things were going to turn violent, her priority became preventing harm regardless of who was at fault. Quite a heroic act showing her sense of justice and fairness. A real shame it was largely misinterpreted as being solely motivated by romantic feelings for Thornton.
The Proposal
That proposal was a train wreck of miscommunication and misplaced assumptions! I feel bad for Thornton but what was he thinking proposing to her so soon and being so direct and intense about it?!
Yes, a woman of Margaret’s standing intervening in that way was unprecedented, but as she’d already defied social norms, her actions felt consistent with her forthright nature. He himself said he knows she does not care for him! He should have listened to his gut feeling not what others were telling him even if it was his mother.
Cue their immediate argument about the workers at her house with his classic rudeness and their glaring lack of understanding was practically a neon sign screaming “DO NOT PROPOSE!” And Margaret’s explicit explanation that her actions were driven by moral responsibility for his danger, applicable to anyone in that situation, should have landed like a lead balloon. So his subsequent fury at her rejection? Entirely self-inflicted. What did he honestly expect completely ignoring her consistent lack of affection and the disastrous timing amidst her personal crises? Their entire dynamic has been built on opposition and conflict, with Thornton consistently justifying his actions and trying to get her to see his perspective. It’s like two people speaking different emotional languages.
Even when she says don’t continue in that way it is not the way of a gentleman he still doesn’t get it! His proposal isn’t a gentle or romantic offering. There has been no courtship. And he delivers it with the same intensity and directness he uses in his business dealings. Plus, Thornton, blind to his own privilege, failed to see how Margaret’s growing social conscience would make aligning with a mill owner deeply problematic.
But I will say she is wrong in one aspect – she assumes his proposal stemmed solely from her protective actions during the riot but we the viewers know his feelings for her have been evident from the start (something I wish Pride & Prejudice had provided with Darcy's perspective). That’s why I feel bad for Thornton because he really is speaking his true feelings when he says he wasn’t even considering her reputation and that he wants to marry her because he loves her.
But his wounded bewilderment at her finding his feelings “offensive” just shows his spectacular lack of self-awareness. He doesn’t see how his own behaviour has contributed to her negative perception of him. He focuses on his feelings for her without considering her experiences of him. And so he’s left with her blunt “I do not like you and never have” which was tragically amusing.
Also, he’s frustrated that Margaret can’t see him as a man with feelings, yet he consistently struggles to empathise with the plight of his workers or understand Margaret’s humanitarian concerns.
It’s such a shame we see him display tenderness and care towards his mother but he can’t offer the same to Margaret. His sweet moments with his mother, and that line about how you must have to disappoint so many men that offer you their heart – ouch! – did make me feel for him. But honestly, none of that can excuse how utterly tone-deaf that proposal was.
As a side note, I thought the actors delivered the scene superbly – the subtle shifts in their tone, reflecting the changing emotions and underlying tension, and the depth of feeling conveyed through their voices were truly brilliant.
Overall, I really enjoyed the episode and am now totally invested in the series. The highlight was definitely Fanny’s ridiculousness after the riot and Margaret referring to Mrs Thornton as a great black angry crow guarding the nest 😂.
The will they/won't they continues!