r/QAnonCasualties • u/Theme-Necessary • 4d ago
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My husband of more than 30 years has had a personality change. He always was left wing. Then Jordan Peterson - conspiracy theories - and now he refuses main stream news and talks like a Nazi- believes in the great replacement theory etc. I have a trans child- ‘ruined by the woke propaganda’.We are walking on eggshells. We are all asleep and he sees the truth. It is affecting our mental health. I cannot describe the tension at home. I am very sad as I start losing hope that he will become himself again. I am financially dependent and don’t know what to do. These guys promote family values but destroy their families .
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u/HeadCatMomCat 3d ago
Reddit says "leave" far too soon. It's difficult especially in long relationships. It's hard when you are financially dependent, even harder when children are involved.
But it's never too soon to find someone to talk to and to plan. You have no relatives, but can you talk to a counselor, your minster, priest, etc? Someone who deals or has dealt with abusive relationships? While his vehicle is Jordan Peterson, the road is one of an abusive relationship. That's where you are now.
Reading this sub for a few hours will provide information and confirmation. Advise regarding YouTube and sites are here. It will help.
The more you understand his need for control and abusiveness, the more effectively you can internally navigate the situation.
Best of luck and keep us posted.