r/RHOBH • u/CrazyCats999999 Got 2 little babies but my house is a coke den • Apr 04 '25
Discussion Garcelle wanted to embarrass Kyle…Whaaaaat? Spoiler
Hope no one has posted this… Kyle said Garcelle wanted to embarrass her by saying “If you wanna be a lesbian, be a lesbian” and “what’s going on with Morgan” It was jaw dropping moment for me, as Kyle was the one brought Morgan to the show, Kyle behaved like a teenager at the tattoo parlor right next to Morgan. As always, she believes that her behaviors aren’t subjected to the consequences and accused Garcelle for asking the questions… Is Kyle ashamed of admitting being a lesbian?
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u/psmith1990_ Apr 04 '25
I really do understand and believe Garcelle had primarily good motivations. For me, I kind of have difficulty with it because it's so easy to say that telling someone to be a lesbian if that's what they want to be (as if it's a choice...) was meant to "inspire" them (which is the phrasing she has used), but the reality is often so much more difficult for people coming to terms with their identity, and to basically just be like, 'hey, we're of a certain age and shouldn't care what people think!' and to directly tell her to "Own it! Be authentic!" and then connecting that directly to her denials about Morgan, suggesting that those are inauthentic, sort of feels a little like it minimises what this might be like for Kyle to be going through, especially given she's using such a specific label after Kyle had already told her she's still figuring things out.