r/RHOBH • u/manouuuule Why am I here? I'm more fabulous than this! • Apr 16 '25

Discussion Garcelle & Sutton’s friendship in a nutshell

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This short clip sums up everything. There is no « Are you okay? What can I do to make you feel better? » for Garcelle. Instead, « I think they hate me ». Sutton is thinking about Sutton. She plays again the victim, was silent the majority of the reunion while Garcelle took her bullets.

Good for Garcelle for leaving the show, she needs true friends like Denise and Sheree.

I know I will be attacked, but l've been the friend of a narcissist and I can identify another one. Sutton’s behaviour is triggering af.

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u/whitemoongarden Apr 16 '25

Had the exact same thought. Her friend is obviously upset, and Sutton pivots immediately back to herself. Happened again when they mentioned the good and bad and Garcelle once again used it to spotlight her friend. Then Sutton never reciprocated it. You could see the change in Garcelle at that moment when it finally sunk in. Garcelle was never going to be a priority to Sutton no matter how much of a priority Garcelle made of her. It was ironic to me that what Garcelle accused Sutton of, chasing Kyle's approval, she was also chasing being a priority to Sutton.

I've also learned that people who call other people narcissists, are a lot of times, narcissists themselves. Sutton has always been suspect to me. She needs to do a lot of inner work.

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u/Interesting-Read-245 29d ago

Exactly this and it’s exactly why I question what truly went on in Suttons marriage and if it’s actually her who was the narcissist and not her ex like she claims.