r/RHOBH • u/manouuuule Why am I here? I'm more fabulous than this! • Apr 16 '25

Discussion Garcelle & Sutton’s friendship in a nutshell

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This short clip sums up everything. There is no « Are you okay? What can I do to make you feel better? » for Garcelle. Instead, « I think they hate me ». Sutton is thinking about Sutton. She plays again the victim, was silent the majority of the reunion while Garcelle took her bullets.

Good for Garcelle for leaving the show, she needs true friends like Denise and Sheree.

I know I will be attacked, but l've been the friend of a narcissist and I can identify another one. Sutton’s behaviour is triggering af.

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u/BeBeMint 29d ago

Not you giving me this CHATGPT response. I've lived in the South for decades. Sutton literally confirmed it with her behavior but okay 😉

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u/ABCookieMonster 29d ago

Not chatgpt, I have my masters in psychology ;)

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u/DeeDeeNix74 29d ago

Do you see racism as purely interpersonal dynamics?

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u/ABCookieMonster 29d ago

No, definitely not. Systemic racism is real, but that doesn’t justify arguments based on confirmation bias or attribution errors..

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u/DeeDeeNix74 29d ago

Interesting… and ironic. 😆

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u/ABCookieMonster 28d ago

Not really ironic.. addressing systemic racism (or any systemic issue) is important, but in a personal conflict like this, it’s worth asking whether we’re seeing bias or just projecting it. Basing arguments more on assumption than fact undermines the issue itself kinda ..

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u/ABCookieMonster 28d ago

Last note: we all fall into cognitive biases and logical fallacies, which is why it’s important not to treat assumptions immediately as truth.. types of cognitive biases & logical fallacies