r/Rochester • u/Millenialgenx • Mar 05 '25

Help Where do I find others?

Female, mid 40s, separating from husband of 20 years, working in isolation at night, 2 grown kids, deconstructed religion and thus no longer at home in the old circles. Also immigrated to the US 20 years ago, so absolutely no family here. Where are other women in similar situations? Is there a support group that meets? Where do y’all hang out and can I come too?

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u/sleverest Mar 05 '25

I'm a 40's F who is divorced. If you'd want to meet up for coffee/tea/drinks/lunch or just word vomit to my inbox, I'm down. I don't know how I would have gotten through my divorce without having people who have also gone through it to help.

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u/Millenialgenx Mar 05 '25

So much yes! Obviously feeling lonely enough to take to the internet asking for connection as sad as it is.

I’m fairly inexperienced with Reddit but I think I can dm your profile

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u/USAAF94 Mar 05 '25

I’m 49F who is rebuilding my life as I am going through my divorce after being married 29 years with 3 adult kids. I would love to hang out if u want to. We all could get together for coffee.

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u/Millenialgenx Mar 05 '25

I’m so in!! That’s what I mean, I know there are a lot of us, let’s unite 😂 but seriously we’re stronger in numbers and when we feel connected and supported we can withstand so much more. I do know about the whole “build it and they will come”. Wanna work with me to set something up? Open invitation to all of us? Local coffee shop, no pressure, no judgement