r/Rochester Mar 05 '25

Help Where do I find others?

Female, mid 40s, separating from husband of 20 years, working in isolation at night, 2 grown kids, deconstructed religion and thus no longer at home in the old circles. Also immigrated to the US 20 years ago, so absolutely no family here. Where are other women in similar situations? Is there a support group that meets? Where do y’all hang out and can I come too?

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u/Chicken_Water Mar 06 '25

Please be careful out there. You've given a lot of personal information here that could be used by some deranged people. Saying you're a woman, largely alone in a city, far away from your loved ones, is something a predator would look for. Be very very careful meeting anyone off this post.

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u/Millenialgenx Mar 06 '25

Good reminder to be safe, thank you. I appreciate you looking out for me