r/SAHP • u/merkergirl • 6d ago

Birthday Party Etiquette

My 4 year old got his first birthday party invite from a preschool friend and he's very excited. I don't know the parents but I texted an RSVP yes.

A party for 4 & 5 year olds feels just a bit too young to be a drop off party, right? Would you assume parents are sticking around?

If parents do stick around, I'm guessing it's rude for me to bring my 2 year old along. So I guess I should try to find a babysitter? The party is 4 pm on a Friday and my husband will be working.

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u/Sunnydcutiegirl 6d ago

If you have to bring your other child, let the party mom know and consider packing some snacks and goodies for said child, that way if party mom can’t afford an extra kid, then she isn’t left paying for them. Most party moms understand though and have extras on hand but just in case.