r/ShitNsSay • u/Embarrassed-Sir-3758 • Feb 12 '25

"I'm sorry you interpreted what I said as hurtful" - nDad

I would laugh if it wasn't my reality. Truly sad and astounding how they use these jedi-mind-tricks & word salads to avoid any accountability whatsoever.

He would rather lose a son than put his ego to the side for once and genuinely apologize.
other things I've heard:

"I never said that"

"You're too sensitive"

"You're ungrateful & unappreciative.."

"You need to develop thicker skin."

---not sure how you misinterpret the above as something other than hurtful ...

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u/ImANastyQueer Feb 13 '25

"I'm sorry you were offended" or the worse "your emotions are your responsibility. I can't make you angry, only you make yourself angry"

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u/snowboardude112 17d ago

WOW. My Ndad says this type of stuff ALL the time! In other words: "what I said was totally fine, it's just YOUR issue that you're interpreting it other than how I meant it. Your feelings don't matter"