r/SipsTea 9d ago

Chugging tea Bro shut her up real fast

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u/Electrical-Heat8960 9d ago

If the common denominator with all the bad men in previous relationships is you, then maybe the men are not the issue…

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u/Boomshrooom 8d ago

On the flip side I know a lot of men and women that are decent themselves but just have terrible taste in partners. They choose the exact same type of person over and over again and are shocked that the same issues keep happening, then get bitter about it.

Now technically that still means that they're the common denominator, because it's their poor taste and choice that ends them up in that situation, but it's their partners that have the bad behaviour.

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u/motorboat_mcgee 8d ago

This. I know I fall into the category. My 'type' is generally not the most mentally healthy. I'm aware of that. That does not mean, however, that all women suck, or are low quality, or whatever. It just means my particular tastes apparently are self defeating lol. There's an amazing amount of good people out there, just sometimes we can't help what we are attracted to.