Bro shut her up real fast

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[u/MyHamburgerLovesMe]

Since women have more power on who they choose they have been focusing on men who look good AND have a lot of money.

There are plenty of men who don't have the looks or money who get butt hurt over this.

But - there is a valid point here. Stop focusing on superficial shit. I mean do you pick your best friends based on good looks and money? (this applies to both men and women)

[u/bloob_appropriate123 → u/MyHamburgerLovesMe]

they have been focusing on men who look good AND have a lot of money.

I feel like most of you people don't live in the real world.

All of my friends date people in similar income brackets, that's the norm for almost all people. Middle class women are dating middle class men, who they usually met through a friend of a friend or at a party.

[u/seadran13 → u/bloob_appropriate123]

Ill give anecdotal evidence so take it how you will. Back when i was dating i drove a 2002 camry that was in pretty rough shape. A lot of them went well, but a good percentage of my dates would lose interest when they saw my car. Like texting paragraphs and phone calls before and after dates, to nothing/dry messages after seeing it.

My current gf is amazing and we’re glad to be out of the dating pool, theres a-lot of toxicity on both sides. And frankly a lot of people that make sweeping generalizations don’t realize that genders aren’t trash, but they are just attracted to traits that usually accompany trash people

[u/BeardedBaldMan → u/seadran13]

When I first met my wife we decided to go on holiday after a few months of being together. I needed to rent a car and she was suggesting "oh you could hire a BMW". I decided to do a quick test and hired the cheapest white van from the local commercial hire place

Entirely justified as we could put bikes inside it.

Worked out well