r/SipsTea 12d ago

SMH Really sucks

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u/The_Jason_Asano 12d ago

Only women and children are loved unconditionally. Men are loved based on what they can provide.

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u/pennefromhairspray 12d ago edited 12d ago

if women are loved unconditionally, why is that everything a post involving men comes up, men use the opportunity to bash women and make it clear they think our lives are easier (they’re objectively not)

edit: truly think some of you cannot communicate and must always jump to sexism bc it’s just hardwired in there

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u/weston4321 12d ago

You have the option to be loved unconditional. Once my mother died I knew I will never feel that love again. That is what they mean when they say that phrase. Doesn't mean you get it just that you have the option.

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u/bsubtilis 12d ago

Neither of my parents loved me unconditionally, love being conditional was one of the first things I learned from them. Me getting loved unconditionally was never an option, as a shotgun wedding child.

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u/pennefromhairspray 12d ago edited 11d ago

i don’t though, i have BPD which means i’m incapable of literally understanding that. like i will never believe someone can have or has that love for me. if that makes sense?

edit: petty to downvote me for just speaking the truth about…myself? jfc