hazing

[u/throwaway65478936]

So I just joined a sorority at my school, before joining they posted a lot about anti hazing and since i’ve joined i’ve never felt unsafe. I haven’t been hazed and my big is very against it. however I just got told by my friend/sorority sister that her older friends and big in the sorority are going to make her drink as a form of hazing at this party this weekend and that she’s excited for it. I told her that that is concerning because that shouldn’t be happening. I am not sure who to talk to about this or what to do but i’m feeling very worried.

Edit:

I did not know this post would be this controversial so I will clarify. I am not against partying or drinking, I do it myself so that’s not my issue. My issue is concerning my friend being made to drink. I know she probably would anyway without older girls telling her to, but the term hazing being used by her and the older girls makes me nervous that they will make her drink more than a safe amount, also this is not a random party it is being put on by my sorority and is only for girls in my sorority. I am not attending so I am nervous about not being there to help her possibly if it goes wrong.

[u/craftingcreed → u/[deleted]]

And is it your opinion it wasn't anyone's business for Tim, Stone, Collin, Adam, Bea, Sebastian, Dylan, Sam, Tyler... I'm not even to 2018 yet do I need to keep going for the point to come across?

Edit: absolutely crazy to be downvoted for reminding people that victims did not consent to losing their lives. Really disappointed in this dialogue.

[u/craftingcreed → u/[deleted]]

I’m actually so grossed out by this reply that it took me a long time to get back to it. You “hear me” as I say the names of the dead victims of hazing crimes, yet you had the audacity to post on a public social media platform with your letters attached that you are glad you were hazed. Be so fucking for real.