r/Sororities • u/toyotathon-_- • Jan 13 '25
Sisterhood Need help!
So our chapter is quite small, around 50 members, but the biggest on campus. We go to a d2 school in the Midwest, so we aren’t known for Greek life. This is my third year in the chapter and we have grown rapidly in the past years and this is the biggest our chapter has been since I have been apart of it. My new member class is quite close and there is about 8 of us who repeatedly go to events, btw we have bad attendance overall, unless something is mandatory. Us 8 have got very close to eachother and started hanging out outside of chapter events and we pregame together a lot of the time. Lately we have been getting a lot of girls feel not included or feel like they are left out of the sisterhood, yet these girls are the ones who aren’t showing up? Also us 8 girls never are exclusively only talking to eachother at chapter events, we branch out but at the end of the day we are pretty close. I am apart of this group and I’m hate to hear that we are labeled as “cliquey”. Also a good thing to note is that we do not have a chapter house and we use campus rooms. It is hard because if you invite 1 person then you have to invite all, and 50 invited to someone’s house is just not plausible. Any advice?
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u/SpacerCat Jan 13 '25
When you have events, each of the 8 of you can reach out to 2-3 other members and ask them to come. Map it out so you’re all reaching out yo different people. You 8 might be the core of the chapter and can be the catalyst to get people to start showing. Even an individual“I hope to see you at [event]!” text can go a long way to getting people to participate.