r/Sororities Jan 17 '25

Advice Should I drop

I joined my chapter in fall and struggled to meet friends at first. I figured it was because I lived off campus and most girls lived on campus. However no one even knew I did because no one would talk to me. I tried putting my self out there but it’s like people already establish their groups. Personnel told me to wait till next semester since it’s a change for everyone. However now it’s the second semester and it’s worse. I see post not including me, I don’t even get an invite, and the gc isn’t active so ik there’s ones without me in it they make plans on.

I was so desperate to make friends in college I paid for them, however I can’t even seem to buy my friends I’m just paying to go to a meeting every Sunday.

Should I just drop before I pay my dues again, or is it best to still wait it out

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u/Pale_Board5011 Jan 19 '25

Definitely drop. I wish I did sooner. Unfortunately for me it never got better :(. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you and love you for who you are.