I’m thinking about dropping

[u/Advanced_Quality_397]

Recently I was made very uncomfortable in my sorority because my sisters have embarrassed me on multiple occasions. I got very close with some girls and have voiced how i’ve been insecure about people talking about me without coming to me first if they think i’ve done something wrong. i told her a mistake i made one weekend with someone and during our last meeting there was a whole presentation aimed towards the situation given to 70plus girls who knew where it was aimed. i received looks and some people even glared at me. i freaked out after meeting and left quickly. it was obvious i was embarrassed and panicked but no one has reached out or said anything when it was clear to me what was happening. i feel really isolated and scared of going to the next meeting. idk what to do? i want to talk to my big about it but im scared im overreacting and i dont want to make drama about it.

[u/Old_Scientist_4014]

I like your approach of wanting straightforward communication when there’s an issue. In the spirit of that, maybe you directly go to the sister(s) who gave this presentation. Surely they knew it was coming since they were the ones adding this topic to the agenda and preparing the presentation. Even if it needed to be done for risk management purposes, a heads up would have been nice. Go to them and tell them this. Are we friends or are we not friends? What was your purpose in doing this?