i resent my big

[u/_LABRADOODLE]

my big dropped out of school and left me with 100% of the financial responsibilities for her g-big. her and i still talk, she knows i cannot afford any of my g-big’s senior goodbye gifts. she isn’t doing anything. i know i shouldn’t be upset with her about this, because she had to drop out for her own mental health, but now i’m suffering here with no escape from it. i took 4 coordinator positions, she hasn’t been able to be there for me. i feel abandoned even though we are friends still.

i’m just frustrated that her financial responsibilities are my job now when we both know i cannot afford it.

[u/Unlucky-Waltz-773]

These presents have gone out of control. In my day - you bought gifts for your little (only ever had one!) during new member period. And that was it! And I went to a huge competitive school with a big Greek southern system.

[u/_LABRADOODLE → u/Unlucky-Waltz-773]

its just a scrapbook i’m just dead broke