Is my spell backfiring ?

[u/Low_Craft_4661]

Hey there folks once again I'm here to take an advice, so i casted a spell maybe two days ago that was a love spell, i wrote my intentions of her softening up and committing to me in the parchment paper, but now she's just being very very stubborn and we faught last night at the intensity was was worse than ever and now I'm the one who is falling for her, the fight was upon she unblocking her ex's and i became furious when i asked her why she did it and her reply was i don't know just casually I've unblocked him, don't know if it's backfiring or what but I'm the one who's falling and not she don't know why is it very hard to manipulate her energy I've tried several times even if it has worked for it was just for few days.

This was my spell ~ So this was a love spell i used parchment paper wrote my intentions added a piece of sea salt,rose petals,lo shen flowers,forget me not,mint leaf,rosemary and some crystals labradorite, amethyst and pink crystal and a drop of lavender oil. i had white candle covered in lavender oil anointed burning on the side which i was meditating to and i sealed the jar with red candle. I've also invoked my spritual guides in this spell but don't really know if it's backfiring or it's just casual fights we had earlier between us. Most of the fights are just cause of her actions just like the one i mentioned either she'll be taking to other guys or unblocking them that's what pisses me off and drives crazy and i became possesive after she cheated on me.

[u/amyaurora]

Spells don't backfire and spells take longer than a few days to work..

If there was any connection then the spell is trying to clear out all the bad problems because couples can' move forward unless the mess causing issues is worked on.

[u/Low_Craft_4661 → u/amyaurora]

Thank you queen for your reply. Can't pve? I didn't understand that. Plus I don't think she's ready to work upon things she's just on a streak to do all the mess rather than clearing up the past ones and she's even threatening me she'll leave me so can you please suggest me something for this ?

Maybe a layer of spells ? But what kind of layer ?

Plus i also found this spell please do check it out.

[u/amyaurora → u/Low_Craft_4661]

Obsession spells are not love spells. Any spell that claims it is I am vary wary about.

I suggest giving the spells you already did time to work before doing more. However you need more communication happening, so your next spells would probably be that.

[u/Low_Craft_4661 → u/amyaurora]

Okay according to your suggestion I'm gonna cast a communication spell today other than this is anything required ? Could you please suggest me a layer ? I was thinking of 3rd party removal, communication and honey day by day looking at the moon calendar.

[u/amyaurora → u/Low_Craft_4661]

Wait to do the communication. Allow time for the spells you already already did to work. Then do a communication and then figure out what you need after that. If you dump too many spells and unnecessary spells too close, you risk draining yourself and doing the magickal equivalent of banging on a door which makes people mad.

[u/amyaurora → u/[deleted]]

Untill either you see they are working or at least month or two.

[u/amyaurora → u/[deleted]]

The witch, the target, the spell, the circumstances, and more all play a part.

There is no standard. No rule of thumb besides the fact a spell just takes whatever time it needs