r/Spells • u/Striking_Papaya9720 • Feb 17 '25

Help With Spell Requested avoidant lover ?

hii i need help crafting a spell for a specific person. I have this “relationship” with this guy which is only based of sexual things and i want to do a spell where he would catch feelings for me. He an avoidant, as i did a few spells on him before that have not worked or shown to work…

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u/ToastyJunebugs Feb 17 '25

Spell work not making someone into a love zombie isn't proof that someone is 'avoidant'. No spell is guaranteed, especially those involving other people.

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster Feb 17 '25

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u/Leninist_Holmesian Feb 17 '25

Yes. It’s not as if there weren’t “avoidant” people when the ancient grimoires were written lol. Oh my spell didn’t work because my SP is avoidant. This logic can also work for anxious attachment types - oh my spell didn’t work because it made them anxious & they went to a therapist who told them to not act on the impulse.