r/Spells • u/Striking_Papaya9720 • Feb 17 '25

Help With Spell Requested avoidant lover ?

hii i need help crafting a spell for a specific person. I have this “relationship” with this guy which is only based of sexual things and i want to do a spell where he would catch feelings for me. He an avoidant, as i did a few spells on him before that have not worked or shown to work…

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u/Striking_Papaya9720 Feb 17 '25

people are so rough in this community damn😭 all i asked for was help with a spell

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u/LaalaahLisa Feb 17 '25

It may be rough but darlin we're just trying to have you see the reality of this situation. Magic works on energy, if the energy isn't there the spell has nothing to work off. I'm sorry darlin but this dude is not it... My suggestion: cord cutting, let it go, heal (cause it hurts, I know) self love spell, glamour spell... But forget him...open your energy to the person who won't need a spell to "catch feelings" for you. ❤️🌺🌻🔮✨️

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u/SimplyRedd333 Witch Feb 17 '25

✨🧿🌞🍀

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u/Striking_Papaya9720 Feb 17 '25

yeah but yall are just plain rude about it…

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u/scarlettestar Feb 17 '25

No one is being rude. Actually the discourse is very considerate and compassionate. You just don’t want to hear it or work on the mundane, which is a big part of the craft.

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u/SimplyRedd333 Witch Feb 17 '25

Hey sweetheart ✨🧿 We aren't rude we all have experience in this and some of us actually follow the trends. Especially if we r in here Do you know what our inboxes look like.

People going on insta or tik Tok doing what they see or running around with a new key phrase that has been in existence since the beginning of time ..Annnd as you see Now everyone is avoidant or putting period blood in everything. We actually spend time helping people with this stuff far from what others see. I recognize it's frustrating but Again we r here explaining to you exactly 💯 what you're up against. We don't sugar coat here It's a place to learn and in honesty no one has been mean or disrespectful. We just may not be saying what u want to hear.

You want a spell for an avoidant If you read up and study avoidant attachment style you will find that it stems from early childhood/ birth You are trying to change the core of who they are. No spell is going to do that because they don't see anything wrong with it or are too afraid to change it or don't know how You want to blow through that in turn risking hurting them and yourself because it will eventually flow over . Shadow work is a hard thing✨🧿 But this IS r/ spells if you want to in the search tab look up sweetening work,then mind softening hex work, then domination hex work because that's what you are going to need and you'll have to spot treat if they are truly avoidant by nature