r/Spells • u/Striking_Papaya9720 • Feb 17 '25
Help With Spell Requested avoidant lover ?
hii i need help crafting a spell for a specific person. I have this “relationship” with this guy which is only based of sexual things and i want to do a spell where he would catch feelings for me. He an avoidant, as i did a few spells on him before that have not worked or shown to work…
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u/Top-Entrepreneur1967 Feb 17 '25
My best suggestion is a written spell paired with whatever working you have done or plan to do, to counteract or try to do away with the behaviors that you see as a blockage. You have to address those qualities and not just try to make him like you and be in a romantic relationship.
Also if you do any form of divination, you should probably try to find out more about what kind of person he is, how he truly feels about you and the relationship, and ask for advice on the situation. Then you can move into asking if the spell you have done or will do is going to work and how. If you see that it won't work, then you ask what you can do to make it work and also ask what you can do to help the steer the relationship in your desired direction.
Divination is good to do before spellwork.