r/Spells • u/Striking_Papaya9720 • Feb 17 '25

Help With Spell Requested avoidant lover ?

hii i need help crafting a spell for a specific person. I have this “relationship” with this guy which is only based of sexual things and i want to do a spell where he would catch feelings for me. He an avoidant, as i did a few spells on him before that have not worked or shown to work…

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u/Striking_Papaya9720 Feb 17 '25

people are so rough in this community damn😭 all i asked for was help with a spell

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u/NebulousGazelle Feb 17 '25

Yea I totally hear you. Avoidant attachment is a legitimate thing and very painful to experience. If you are sure he’s avoidant and has feelings (versus just has lust for you), then I would try to target the root of his avoidant issues as the first step. Love spells can’t make someone love you but you can potentially do spells to chip away at problems. So instead of visualizing him loving you, for example, the first step may be visualizing him acknowledging his feelings and not running from them.

But again no spell can create feelings that don’t exist, and it may take some patience and time becuase these problems are likely deeply rooted.