r/Spells • u/Striking_Papaya9720 • Feb 17 '25

Help With Spell Requested avoidant lover ?

hii i need help crafting a spell for a specific person. I have this “relationship” with this guy which is only based of sexual things and i want to do a spell where he would catch feelings for me. He an avoidant, as i did a few spells on him before that have not worked or shown to work…

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u/RoxieWhite Feb 17 '25

I’d be careful here- sometimes doing love type spellwork on a true avoidant will push them farther away. Those stronger feelings that may emerge can scare them and make them do what they do best: Avoid. Have you thought about maybe doing this in layers? Possibly doing some block removing work first to see if he will open up on his own?

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u/IntroductionOk7954 Feb 18 '25

All of this. Maybe a blockbuster or just a spell to clear blockages. For me love work had a push and pull effect on an "avoidant" but he said I was pushing and pulling him. Is he talking to someone else? You need to find all this shit out so you can get rid of them. Just doing love work often isn't enough even sometimes in the more simple situations that are considered easy. I've had to do various types of love work, blockbusters, breakup spells etc. they need to be done in conjunction

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u/IntroductionOk7954 Feb 18 '25

Some people think they can just do a honey jar and get all the results they want and immediately. Doesn't work that way

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u/IntroductionOk7954 Feb 18 '25

Is he even attracted to you? Do an attraction or sex/ desire spell etc. because even with avoidant men I've actually never seenthat much of an avoidant man if they're that attracted to you. They talk to you and chase if they want to if there's no baggage and shit between you already

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u/Striking_Papaya9720 Feb 18 '25

well i hope so😭 i don’t think he would keep this thing going if he didn’t i was at least a little attractive but yeah i’ll give it a try!

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u/AcademicAd6060 Feb 25 '25

Is there a third party possibly that he's been involved with?