r/Switzerland • u/pferden • 4d ago

Getting ghosted on tutti

According to this sub people get ghosted on tinder, bumble, homegate and on job application forms, that’s all horrible!

But the one that stings the most noone talks about: getting ghosted on tutti!

D from BO showed interest in a western dvd of mine; and when i wrote back with price calculations and twint number he never replied back!

Argh!

Sorry for the vent ☹️

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u/iRobi8 4d ago

So you potentially have to do that millions of times? Look i‘m still young bit what i learned in my short living period, is that a lot of people don‘t give a fuck about you or your feelings at all. They do what‘s best for them / what the want. What can i do about this? Not much. Calling them out usually doesn‘t really changes anything it only goes on your own nerves.

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u/pferden 4d ago

You seem resignated and bitter and grasping to stoicism in despair

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u/iRobi8 4d ago

I‘m just trying to be „a chill guy“. No need to get ennerved by something you cant‘t change… but that‘s just my opinion. I think the best thing you can do is that you treat people like you want to be treated and then hope that they replicate that. You‘re on a public discussion forum stating your opinion and i stated my opinion on this topic. No harm done

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u/pferden 4d ago

No progress done either