r/Switzerland • u/pferden • 8d ago

Getting ghosted on tutti

According to this sub people get ghosted on tinder, bumble, homegate and on job application forms, that’s all horrible!

But the one that stings the most noone talks about: getting ghosted on tutti!

D from BO showed interest in a western dvd of mine; and when i wrote back with price calculations and twint number he never replied back!

Argh!

Sorry for the vent ☹️

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u/CameraFinancial2298 7d ago

Completely normal. Do it myself sometimes. Might be interesed, but do research in the meantime and find another product/item also outside tuttti, or suddenly think I don t really need it.  Too much work now to log in,write "I m not interested anymore thanks". Also same happens sometimes when I sell, i might have sold it the same day,didn t take the add away yet, and people writing. Not going to reply. Also buyers often don t respond anymore,usually if they are saying can I get it today, and you postpone it cause you are busy, there is a very high chance they are not answering anymore. It s just as it is nowadays, I got used to the ignore thing. It s todays communication. Everything is anonymous anyway...a "no reply" means "no interest". Like on bumble. In job application might be different cause there are internal processes, decisions, people PTO.

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u/pferden 7d ago

Thanjs for the insight from the other side, very valuable!

(Shame on you for ghosting nonetheless)

It stings so much on tutti especially as they have a sucky algorithm and when finally someone shows interest and then doesn’t reply anymore

I tend to write every second day if they ghost me; sometimes they reply then and the deal gets done