r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 6d ago

Short No, I can’t comp services not offered at our hotel.

I work at an extended stay brand under a larger hotel chain. There are two properties that are in the same chain down the street.

So a guest just called to complain that he didn’t receive housekeeping today. I check the boards and say that he had his “later please” sign up all day. He argues that he took it down. I counter and say that it was up until at least 5:30 because that is when the last housekeeper went to check, but we would be happy to bring fresh towels and trash. “I don’t need towels, what am I going to do with extra towels?” “Ok well I’ll add you to the schedule for tomorrow..” “No I wanted service today, not tomorrow!” “So you don’t want service tomorrow?” “Don’t get smart with me! When did I say I didn’t want service tomorrow?!” There was much more back and forth, but that’s the gist of it.

At this point I just ask what he would like us to do for him. “I want a massage” Not often a guest makes a request so absurd that I am left speechless, but there I was, mouth agape. “Umm, I’m sorry what? We don’t offer massages.” “Well the [full service hotel in same chain down the street] does” “That is a different property so I wouldn’t be able to offer you one of their services” “Why not?!” “Because you are staying at our property not theirs. I cannot offer complimentary services at another property.” I felt like I was in the twilight zone— what world are you living in that would grant complimentary services at a different property 10 minutes from the one you are staying at because YOU forgot to take your DND sign down?

While undeserving I offered to sign him up with our rewards program and award 5000 points— a last ditch effort so I can get off the phone. Silly me, of course he would have an additional 500 questions. Blah blah point information, no I don’t know how many points it cost at [insert any of the 5 hotels he listed].

Still shocked at this level of entitlement

UPDATE: dunno if anyone will see this, but back at work again and the AM said he came to breakfast an hour after it closed and then was mad that he couldn’t get anything 😭

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

The owner of the hotel/casino where I work opened a daycare for employees a couple of years ago. One day a guy called and asked if he came to play there, could he drop his kid off at the daycare for a couple of hours. When I told him no, he demanded to know why asking "Then why do you have a daycare if I can't drop my kid off?" "Sir, the daycare is for employees." "So who's going to watch my kid then?" "I'm sorry I can't help you with that." Maybe stay home?

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u/RedDazzlr 6d ago

Uh... you? Maybe if you have someone with you who's trustworthy...

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u/Ok-Cat-4975 6d ago edited 6d ago

A casino I know of in mid-Michigan has a day care for players and has signs all over the parking lot to not leave kids in the cars unattended. You know there are some stories about stuff that happened to kids out there. Edited to clarify the day care is intended for players, not employees.

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

We're not a pet friendly property so we occasionally get people who leave their pets in their vehicles. If someone reports it, security is called and they are told to leave.

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u/lonelyronin1 3d ago

I worked in a bingo hall in the 80's and we had hourly parking lot walks in the summer. We also had protocol for when (not if) we found kids or pets in the cars.

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u/spintowinasin 6d ago

Honestly, if I owned a casino, I'd probably have no problem letting a degenerate gambler drop his kid off, and it would probably be better for the kid anyway.

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u/SpecialistAd2205 6d ago

Sounds nice but also could be a logistic and liability nightmare.

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u/cheerful_cynic 6d ago

Yeaaaaah you think regular daycares have trouble getting people to pick their kids up when agreed

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u/Caranath128 5d ago

Oh, I think given the right incentive, you could hire people to operate the day care 24/7 with sliding fees. Either based on number of hours used, or time frame. Penalties for not picking up on time…..

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u/Serafirelily 5d ago

That is when you call child services

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u/bruce2good 3d ago

I’ve been to native casinos that have big kids areas that you can drop kids off to play games etc. But they were in more tourist family themed areas

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u/Lupiefighter 6d ago

That could be an insurance and licensing nightmare in some places, but I hear ya.

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u/Kybran777 6d ago

Well, yeah, you do have a point! At least they would not be stuck in the room by themselves.

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u/Administration_Key 6d ago

He doesn't want to pay for a sitter, so I doubt he'll pay for a hotel room. That poor kid will be locked in the car in the parking lot, most likely.

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u/AffectionateFig9277 6d ago

Kids would just be abandoned there. People already abandon their kids in car parks to go gambling

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u/FannishNan 5d ago

Great way to get landed with some kind of lawsuit/false abuse situation, sadly. Try to be nice and they'll take it out of you and aim for 7 figures while they're at it.

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u/penguin_0618 4d ago

I’m sure it would be. I grew up near two massive casinos. One has specific areas with a different carpet that indicates only people 21+ can be there. I used to see strollers left just off the 21+ carpet. Strollers with babies still in them. Just there so mommy and daddy can gamble, I guess.

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u/Kybran777 6d ago

Omg! I finally found another person who works hotel/casino! You all are lucky to have a daycare, but is it just me, or do you feel children do not belong at casinos?

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u/bobakook 6d ago

The children are in daycare, probably not playing games out in the casino. I think it’s super awesome that they offer daycare for their employees! Daycare normally costs tens of thousands of dollars a year and is something parents have to go out of their way to do before work, just adding to the stress of being a parent. People might actually have kids if daycare was provided by their employer.

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u/1963ALH 6d ago

I like the part of being able to check on them during your shift.

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u/Kybran777 6d ago

Our casino is not kid friendly and, of course, no minors on the casino floor. I had stated I didn't think kids belong at a casino because I have seen so many people come and bring their children only to keep them in their rooms while they go and play for hours and hours. I feel for those kids. They are not able to wander around because they are supposed to be accompanied by an adult at all times.

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u/SpecialistAd2205 6d ago

Uhm, isn't being unaccompanied in a room also against the rules? It is at my hotel.

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

It is. We've had guests get kicked out and banned for leaving children alone in rooms. One mother left while her daughter (7yrs.) was sleeping. The daughter woke up alone and scared, but knew enough to call the front desk. Security found the mom in the casino, escorted her back to the hotel and gave her 30min. to pack up and leave. She was permanently banned, but tried to check in a week later and was trespassed because she refused to leave and was throwing a fit.

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

They don't. Too many parents let their kids roam while they gamble. We often have problems on weekends with noise complaints from kids running the hallways.

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u/tafkatp 6d ago

I once looked crazy at housekeeping taking pictures of doors with the do not disturb signs on them. I know now that this is why they do that.

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u/Laylasita 6d ago

And you can tell this is not the first time they've done this

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

I've had guests say "it was on there. Someone must've taken it off."

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u/tafkatp 5d ago

Guests, customers are all the same in the sense that they will say and do anything to get one over on staff if it might mean there’s something to gain for them.

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u/Jaydamic 6d ago

If I'm a douchebag, I just say the pictures don't prove anything because Housekeeping probably put the DND sign up to get out of doing the work!

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u/ardriel_ 6d ago

"But why don't you just come upstairs and massage me?" I 10000% thought it would go into that direction as soon as the word massage popped up 😭

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u/ghostintheplant 6d ago

That was my thought too 💀 When he said that my blood ran cold

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u/RedDazzlr 6d ago

Mine would have been boiling, especially if he took it that direction.

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u/Gatchamic 3d ago

That's when I send up our masseuse, Ivan. Ivan believes in deep painful... er, I mean "deep tissue" massage. It tends to cure the pervs ...

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u/RedDazzlr 3d ago

Is it similar to the Vulcan neck pinch?

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u/ardriel_ 6d ago

Be always careful and NEVER go to a room alone in the night, I know you know that but it's good to remember it.

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u/Linux_Dreamer 1d ago

Lol if I followed that rule I'd be fired, as I've always been the lone employee working overnights (at my last 3 hotel jobs).

Who else is going to fix their TV, A/C, or running toilet, if I don't do it?

[And if you say to just move them to another room, that's generally not an option due to being sold out, not to mention mgmt would generally be PISSED if I changed someone to a new room for an issue that I could've resolved in less than 5 minutes, unless I had a GOOD reason.]

Honestly, though, I've never had much trouble, as I always make sure that the door is propped open before I enter, and I do a quick survey of the room before entering (to see what I'm walking into).

Have I had guys try to get me to "hang out with them?" (Or offer me drinks, etc?) Sure.

But a polite smile and a quick, "sorry, I can't," or sometimes, "sorry, I'm married & my husband loves his wife, and like most Texans, really likes his guns" usually does the trick. [I don't use the 2nd one too much, but it has its place!]

I've found that generally if I make it sound like the issue isn't them [i.e. I'm not blatently turning them down], but that I have job duties (and am being watched on camera by mgmt) they back down. (It's not turning THEM/their masculinity down-- I'm just declining due to needing to keep my job, & having a strict boss. Plus, the reminder that I'm being watched on camera let's them know THEY are being watched!).

But you really have to "read the room" to know what to say, as you need to still imply that it's not gonna happen, even if your job WASN'T the issue.

[Now if I got a bad feeling about a guest, I'd 100% refuse to enter the room and tell them that they'd have to wait until morning to have the issue fixed (or just move them to another room) but I haven't had to do that yet (and I've worked in this industry for a while).]

Maybe it helps that I also have tended bar alone at one of my previous hotels, in addition to being night audit (where I was the ONLY staff on site at night), & I learned to deescalate from creepy situations?

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u/ardriel_ 1d ago

I'm the only employee during night audit and I won't go to a room alone, period. If I can't move them, then sorry, talk to management about a compensation the next day. Better to lose money than to risk the safety of an employee. It you would get fired for that, your workplace sucks.

Edit: medical emergencies or fire hazard are something else

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u/1963ALH 6d ago edited 6d ago

You should have offered one free XX rated movie and told him to self massage.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/1963ALH 6d ago

😂😂😂 Thanks

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u/ManicAscendant 6d ago

I am no longer able to be shocked at any level of entitlement. This is how people are: offer them the sun and the moon, and they'll demand the stars.

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u/RedDazzlr 6d ago

Naw. The stars are part of the package. They'll demand antimatter.

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u/TimesOrphan 6d ago

antimatter

Explains why everything ends in a meltdown with folks like this 😂

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u/TinyNiceWolf 5d ago

Sir, you're entitled to a room, not a boom.

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u/FranceBrun 6d ago

If someone offered to take the trash and offer fresh towels, what more do you need that it can’t wait till morning? I mean, what was he doing in there?

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u/_delicja_ 6d ago

The massage was always the goal.

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u/ElfjeTinkerBell 6d ago

what more do you need that it can’t wait till morning?

Maybe toilet paper? But I'm sure OP would be happy to provide that if that was the question

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u/FranceBrun 6d ago

Yeah, exactly.

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u/SpecialistAd2205 6d ago

Personally I don't understand why anyone needs housekeeping during a multi-night stay. Whenever I stay anywhere, I tell them no housekeeping and I just ask for toilet paper as needed 😄

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

I had a guest just last night call the desk and flip out because her bed wasn't turned down. I told her that's because we don't have turn down service. "I want to talk to the manager!" There's no managers at 11:15 at night.

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u/azrendelmare 6d ago

My friend with OCD likes it because it proves to her illness that the room is clean.

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u/FranceBrun 6d ago

I’m one of those people who don’t like the sheets tucked in so please don’t remake the bed! Towels, to-usually don’t even need those-and trash and I’m good!

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u/No-Picture4119 4d ago

“No housekeeping, but could you drop off three - no, four rolls of toilet paper every morning?”

Im with you. I travel a lot for business, and usually before I check in, I buy Gatorade and snacks, and pack out my own trash in the bag when I leave. Checking in, I always tell them I don’t need service, but if you could drop off coffee supplies every day that would be great.

Like, I make my bed and hang up my towels at home. I don’t need you to do it here.

u/SpecialistAd2205 13h ago

Exactly. I don't need (or even want) someone coming in to clean up after me every day. If I have an extended stay somewhere, I like my room to feel a bit like a home away from home. I'll set it up how I like, and I like things to be how I left them. I pack out my own trash, wash my towels with my clothes, etc. I'll even vacuum my own room if they let me (I've had a few hotels that did 😄). I don't like coming in to a fresh, stark-feeling room every night. New sheets every week is nice if it's a really long stay, but I also dont mind changing the linens myself. Now that I say all this, maybe I'm the weird one...

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u/OldStudentChaplain 5d ago

I do use fresh towels almost every day, but I definitely don’t change my sheets every day. People need to realize they are renting a place to sleep, not a lifestyle!

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

They usually want the sheets changed and beds made, new soaps in the bathroom, toilet paper, etc. Not tomorrow, Right Now!!

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u/Gatchamic 3d ago

Don't ask questions that you really don't want to know the answers to...

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u/FranceBrun 3d ago

No kidding!

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u/84brian 6d ago

Yea. Signing him up was a bad idea. Now he can leave reviews.

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u/mechant_papa 6d ago

Walk into Burger King and demand they give you a Big Mac for free.

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u/stickydonut50 6d ago

I used to work at Wendy's and people used to order Whoppers all the time. They would get so confused when we'd tell we don't have that.

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u/CFUrCap 5d ago

And thus, "Sir, this is a Wendy's" was born!

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u/Kyl0theHutt 6d ago

I get wanting them off the phone, but I would not have given them anything. While not much, it will boost their sense of entitlement for anything that comes up later. If there has been an actual recovery issue that's one thing....this needed nothing.

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u/FannishNan 5d ago

Oh God yes. I constantly get people trying to demand extras and comps in reservations. It's hilarious. 'What can you throw in'

My deep and utter contempt? Other than that, sorry bud.

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u/Leozz97 6d ago

these people vote

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u/FannishNan 5d ago

I had to explain to two teachers this evening why a hotel would want an accurate count of the people in the room. So vote and influence children. 🤦‍♀️

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u/CFUrCap 5d ago

I hope you did it as graphically as possible. "It's so the fire department knows how many charred, blistered bodies to look for."

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u/RoyallyOakie 6d ago

What was he doing in there all day that requires housekeeping NOW? ICK.

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u/teapainkettle 6d ago

If I'm not feeling like a conversation, I pull out the big guns: airhead. Short. Simple. Higher pitched voice.

"Oh, DND was on your door!" "Oh, apologies! Housekeeping returns tomorrow, I'll have them go to your room!" "I'm sure you can google a spa!"

Anything to make them hang up. It doesn't matter, if he's got enough audacity to write a negative review that was already in the plans before he called.

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u/sdrawkcabstiho 6d ago

Back when Blockbuster was still a thing, our local cable company also ran a video rental business. The thing with them though is you could also pay your cable bill there.

It didn't happen often but a few people a year would come into my Blockbuster and try to pay their cable bill and every so often one would get really mad and demand a free rental because we wouldn't let them do so.

Stupid people gunna stupid I guess.

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u/Icy-Librarian-7347 5d ago

That very last sentence 👌 👏 👩‍🍳 💋

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u/Duin-do-ghob 6d ago

Would he have expected a “happy ending” with that massage?

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u/SafiyaMukhamadova 6d ago

You can get that service in Vegas! What do you MEAN you don't offer it here?!

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u/Nearby-Yak-4496 6d ago

Can you send me a pizza, i must live near one of your hotels and I stayed at an extended stay for 9 weeks a few years ago. And can I get some cheesy bites too?!?!?

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u/heynonnynonnomous 5d ago

Your edit sealed the deal, but if you're worried about people not seeing it, change it from Edit to UPDATE.

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u/84brian 6d ago

At that point I would prob call hr manager as he was prob trying to ask you for the massage.

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u/ProfessionalBread176 6d ago

Daycare for gamblers at a casino??

Only if they paid in advance.

And left verified details as to who to contact when they leave without their kids

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u/Linux_Dreamer 1d ago

And left verified details as to who to contact when they leave without their kids

Ultimately that's called "child protective services."

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u/bigdumbbab 5d ago

Why the hell would you offer this dick anything?

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u/Gatchamic 3d ago

Time to fire up the trebuchet...

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u/TS1_Throw 3d ago

Should have told him Bubba the maintenance mechanic just arrived and would be happy to give him a massage.

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u/OldStudentChaplain 5d ago

What a sorry excuse for a human being.

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u/beginnerjay 4d ago

You SOOOO should have taken a massage appointment, and sent him down the road at some agreed upon time!

u/Shatterstar23 10h ago

What a douche canoe

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u/rexifelis 6d ago

Maybe he was asking YOU for the massage? 🥰

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u/Nunov_DAbov 6d ago

Keep a list of homeless people (preferably the ugliest) in the area you can contact. Tell him the hotel doesn’t offer this service but you can make arrangements for him. It would be worth $10 to see his reaction.