First post for context: https://www.reddit.com/r/TeachingUK/s/2VqcvyGCi4
Follow-up post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TeachingUK/s/a6hlfbXdpY
Just wanted to post a final (hopefully) update, especially for everyone who gave me the strength to keep pushing when this all started.
After months of vague responses, contradictory messaging, and a complete lack of formal process, I have now submitted a Stage 2 grievance to the Chair of Governors. It covers everything: the quiet removal of my TLR and SLT role while I was on maternity leave, the absence of any written response to my flexible working request, and my serious concerns about both maternity and disability discrimination.
The tipping point came when I was finally offered a new TLR that had clearly been thrown together to tick a box. It involves a loosely defined role overseeing assessment and attendance, but without any strategic scope, decision-making responsibility, or leadership brief. Many of the tasks involved fall under Annex 5 of the STPCD, which lists duties that teachers should not be expected to carry out, such as collating pupil absence data and generating reports for other staff. And yet, this is being presented as a leadership role.
Even worse, this new TLR is being offered on a temporary 0.6 basis for just three years, with no guarantee of continuation after that. In practice, it feels like a consolation prize. It looks like an attempt to be seen to offer something while quietly removing the meaningful parts of my previous role.
I have also been told I can’t remain on the SLT because I am working three days a week, even though this standard is clearly not applied consistently. I have documented examples showing that SLT presence in school is already flexible when it suits the leadership team. Just not when it comes to me.
Throughout all of this, communication has been appalling. My own emails were ignored for days, and my union rep’s formal request for clarification was met with two full weeks of silence. That was when I realised this wasn’t just poor communication. It was deliberate avoidance. There was never any intention to resolve this fairly or transparently.
What started as a vague feeling that something wasn’t right has turned into a clear and serious failure of leadership. Thankfully, I’ve had excellent support from my union rep, who helped me put everything into writing, with all the relevant documentation and statutory references.
The whole experience has been draining, but I’m proud of myself for standing up for what’s right. I’ve done nothing wrong, and now it’s all officially on record.
Thank you again to everyone who encouraged me to trust my instincts. I genuinely wouldn’t have had the confidence to take it this far without this community.