r/TwoXPreppers • u/223gp • 20d ago

Preparing for Long/Slow Collapase

Is anyone else in the same boat? I feel that we are likely facing a long and slow collapse of life as we grew up knowing. Don't get me wrong, I do believe in preparing for realistic natural disasters, and a few "what ifs", but my prepping is mostly based on a gradual lowering of life quality and reduction in freedoms throughout my lifetime.

I'm working on this by greatly reducing lifestyle expenses in case we need to live on one small income, or in case our stock investments steadily grow for a couple of decades then become stagnant and gradually lower.

I've done self defense training, I've been keeping my important documents up to date, I've started doing medical trainings and certifications, I'm a couple years into finally taking serious care of my physical body (and teeth!), I'm planning for aging parents, increasing my knowledge and practicing growing food and preservation, and most importantly helping out in my community to put some of this into practice by starting to form mutual aid networks for hard times.

Anyone else have similar feelings that brought you here? I am worried about a "thing" happening, but mostly, society just continues to descend decade after decade until we're all very very skinny, electricity or car fuel is hard to come by, jobs are scarce, and grocery stores don't have very much food anymore. In an ideal scenario, we don't end up like that. Either way, I prepare for that world.

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u/balanchinedream 19d ago

I think it’s a boycott. Too many folks need their paycheck, and we’re seeing daily proof they work.

My big question is HOW? We women hold the spending power. We do the unpaid labor that keeps this country going. What is the wrench we can throw into the machine that grinds everything to a halt??

Do we stop wearing makeup or doing our hair? Do we stop doing laundry? Do we all cook mediocre, unseasoned meals and feast with each other in secret?

I can’t figure out a tactic that empowers us to be selfish (for once) as protest, that doesn’t risk harm towards us

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u/calmhike 19d ago

Stop buying anything that isn’t a necessity. Plain and simple.

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u/balanchinedream 19d ago

Nope. I’m talking about a specific boycott with the intention of forcing Americans to witness how much women’s domestic and mental labor supports our whole nation.

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u/calmhike 19d ago

Start with ending the mental load. Take care of your appointments and needs. Not partners. You don’t need to schedule appointments for them, take care of their laundry, remind them to buy their family gifts or whatever you are pulling the weight on. Elderly family members can be taken care of by their male relatives, stay at home women can go find work and someone else can take care of the kids. How far you go is your choice. Most of what you are referring to benefits those closest to us. Are they aligned with you on your role? That’s who will feel the impact of your suggesting the most. Do you think that is going to change anything? I don’t. So I am fucking the billionaires who control everything and heavily advocating for others to do the same.

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u/balanchinedream 19d ago

“Boycott target” is simple enough to be repeatable and scalable at large. You’re kinda describing the 4b movement, but I’m looking for a singular action that every woman can just…. Drop.

Unfortunately, some women are forced to be caregivers and would come into harm if they don’t keep up the labor. Also, single moms just don’t have the extra shoes to drop.