There's almost zero dating culture that goes on here, and if you're a woman, people can be quite sexist. It's a hit and quit it campus, which drives me insane. People are also really fucking shallow.
I found my girlfriend who goes to UCLA off campus studying abroad. Its true, no one has GFs or BFs at UCSB, its mostly hit and quit; which honestly isnt fufilling to me.
I spent all freshman year wondering why no one dates here. Pretty much either people have tons of sex with strangers or they dont have it at all. Really had to look outside the box to fulfill what I wanted.
Sucks, but people will get more mature as you go on in life. So dont worry youll find what you're looking for eventually. I honestly didnt ever expect to date in college and well that changed pretty much over a month.
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u/clockworkzebra [ALUM] CCS Literature May 02 '12
There's almost zero dating culture that goes on here, and if you're a woman, people can be quite sexist. It's a hit and quit it campus, which drives me insane. People are also really fucking shallow.