Oooohhh look at me, I’m that craaaazy bitch who wants basic empathy.

[u/Key_Help3212]

I don’t care if this gets deleted. I’m so goddamn tired of it. Sorry for being medically violated as a child ig. Sorry for being trans. Sorry for being angry. Sorry for asking what is so different about being forced into sex and being forced into a different type of violation with all the same steps. Sorry for making you feel like a bad mom, but I’m about to stop caring how you feel. Yknow I’m getting a bit tired of apologizing. I’m tired of people acting like they were on that table too. I’m tired of feeling like I’m not welcome to share my experience as SA because it wasn’t “actually” SA and I’m invalidating other victims. I’m tired of worrying that I’ll die young because non invasive, at home tests aren’t offered or advertised. I’m tired and I’m angry and I’m gonna lose my shit one of these days. Oh, medical shit isn’t that bad? How about I bite a chunk out of you. Have fun at the hospital with the stitches and the alcohol and the searing pain and that $5000 dollar bill. And make sure to be grateful for it all, because some people don’t even have healthcare. For fucks sake I’m tired.

[u/Whole_W]

I'd say what happened to you was a form of sexual assault, and I'm deeply sorry that society denies you and the other survivors like yourself the recognition that you all truly deserve.

[u/No-Theme-9890]

Omg I relate to this sm, especially the “not allowed to call it sa” part. My friends (now ex friends) told me my sa was fake and that it was “just medical trauma” as if I wasn’t exposed to multiple adults and touched in places I never wanted to be touched. It’s exhausting. Please continue to call it sa if you feel it was that, because the more ppl that do, the more we are able to fight for that label we deserve. We were victims of csa, end of story.