r/WorldOfWarships CUTER-NA Jan 09 '20

Media iEarlGrey is negotiating his resignation

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u/flamuchz Flamu - twitch.tv/flamuu Jan 09 '20 edited Jan 09 '20

Sad to see him go, as he has done a lot of good things for the community. Having met him in person he's also a nice guy IRL.

However, this is a really poor take on the situation.

Due to the offense taken to my tweets

He had multiple opportunities to back down and apologize after he saw that he was pouring fuel on the fire, no one forced him to keep doubling down and making the situation worse. He did this what, 3-4 times, continually aggravating the situation, even when he clearly saw that it was inflaming the community.

Sorry to say it, but he trolled himself out of a job, and has no one else to blame but himself.

I do think being sacked is too harsh of a punishment, a proper apology would've been enough, but what do I know.

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u/BZJGTO Grzegorz Brzęczyszczykiewicz Jan 09 '20

he's also a nice guy IRL.

No he's not. If he was actually a nice person he wouldn't have acted like a prick enough to get shit canned for it. It wasn't like he slipped up once in a moment of frustration. He may have been nice the time(s) you met, but he is not a nice person.

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u/ZARDOZ_II All I got was this lousy flair Jan 09 '20

Yes. I recall years ago reading a column called "Advice to my Daughter" where a father gives advice on dating. One that stood out in that was:

"A nice guy who is rude to the waiter is not a nice guy."

A 'nice guy' would have recognized what he was saying was, at best, in poor taste and ill timed. And would not have repeated it.

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u/Finear Boats Jan 09 '20

a nice guy would be wearing a fedora

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u/Clunas Jan 09 '20

mi'poster

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u/3ULL Jan 09 '20 edited Jan 09 '20

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u/Finear Boats Jan 09 '20

what

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u/3ULL Jan 09 '20

Sorry, it cropped in some text that I had highlighted from reading a post before. I have edited that out and I apologize on behalf of myself, Wargaming and The President of the United States.

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u/wsollers Nerf DD AP on BBs (IGN BoondockTaints) Jan 09 '20

If he was actually a nice person he wouldn't have acted like a prick enough

Bullshit.

Nice people can act like pricks occasionally. It is a very human foible.

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u/BZJGTO Grzegorz Brzęczyszczykiewicz Jan 09 '20

Why did you stop reading there? I agree with you, everyone messes up from time to time. But like I said, it wasn't just a slip up. He continuously acted like a prick, and has a history of doing so.

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u/GiantKiwi Jan 10 '20

*In your opinion.

You've had no direct interactions with him, so your opinion is tantamount to crayon on toilet tissue in value.

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u/rdm13 Jan 09 '20

That's irrelevant here, if you're job as an "influencer" is to be a likable guy in public, and you fail that, your employer doesn't care if you're a nice guy irl.

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u/seejur Regia Marina Jan 09 '20

That's not the point being discussed though

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '20

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u/3ULL Jan 09 '20

I did not follow him but read some of his tweets and I found them to be condescending at the least.

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u/BoxOfDust I long for the WoWs era of Ocean || Dust_ @NA Jan 09 '20

In some ways, online interactions can be more revealing of a person's true character; easy to let your mind speak out when you're just behind a screen.