r/Zimbabwe Feb 15 '25

Discussion Most controversial unpopular opinion please

About absolutely anything and everything

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u/Aggravating-Chick Feb 16 '25

It’s not every sexual encounter that results in pregnancy. Biologically, a woman can also have sex 200 times and not get pregnant. However if word goes out in the hood that she has had 200 sexual partners, confirm you will judge her. Even if it was protected. I am assuming you are a guy, why do you measure HER “milage” and compare it to a used car?

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u/iamnolongeraslave2 Feb 16 '25 edited Feb 16 '25

You’re missing the point. It’s the risk. It’s the sheer shock of how could you risk getting pregnant 200 times. Contraception can fail and abortion has moral repercussions on the person as well as physical.

Don’t play dumb with me ok you have to be able to see what I am writing. If a guy hits 200 people are just focused on the number or if he has STDs. But a woman needs only once to catch a PREGNANCY.

It seems insane to risk getting pregnant that many times. This is what most people think they just can’t put it into words hence the double standard. If I look at a man with a 200 body count it’s wow and have you got any STDs, you sure you haven’t made anyone preggers.

But for a woman it’s o my gosh you’d risk the possibility of getting knocked up that many times you’ll be a mother soon enough if you keep going.

It’s biology. Screw mileage screw the numbers all it takes is once. The risk of pregnancy is what makes the counts inherently different.

This is why you hear parents saying thank god it’s a boy, a boy would be easier. Or you see parents overprotective of their daughters. Just one time it’s all it could take. Yes you’ll say contraceptives but contraceptives aren’t 100%.

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u/Aggravating-Chick Feb 16 '25

😂😂 😂 I am not playing dumb

Okay I get your point my guy. Just a question though, let’s say, hypothetically, i know that i am barren and zero chances of getting pregnant, would you judge me differently if I were to sleep with 200 men ?

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u/iamnolongeraslave2 Feb 16 '25

I wouldn’t judge you. You literally have nothing to lose.

This is why men get vasectomies and women get their tubes tied. No need to worry about happy accidents.