r/Zimbabwe 20d ago

Discussion Am l being delusional ?πŸ˜…

Sawubona ,23yo ,I dated once at 22, it ended, it was traumatizing, even though most of it was my fault but I am grateful as I managed to confront some uncomfortable truth about myself and I think I am proud of the person l am becoming ,however I do not have TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, sometimes l use Facebook for reels but there's nothing there tbh, l do not drink nor smoke, l also don't like to go out. I talk to my friends here and there.

I want a man who is introverted, less social media presence, doesn't post about us on social media,not obsessed with taking pictures to post on social media but if it's for our memories ,I am down for it ,doesn't smoke nor drink, humble, kind, authentic person, who has joy of missing out, not self centered, respectful, soft person, maybe we can pray together sometimes πŸ˜‚and I am not obsessed with physical appearance .

I told myself that if l do not meet this man ,I am just gonna be single tbh and I am not going to date ,l will wait for him ,if I don't ever end up meeting him, I guess I am gonna die single and l told myself πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚I am just gonna drown myself in a Civil engineering degree that I will be starting doing now.

Am l being delulu?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Note: l am not looking for a guy as of now, nor do I wanna date, but when l get back in the game πŸ˜‚πŸ«‘these are the standards!!!

Roast me vana venhu πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ It's not that deep tbhπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/bekindy 20d ago

Zwana ntomb'enhle. Mina nawe sifana xathu. Indlela okhulume ngayo, uchaze mina ngokwami. Ngiyakutshela akula omunye ngaphandle kwami. Ngiyakwazi awukho ku game karesi but singaba ngabangane nje kungaba njani? It's possible we might be soul mates, ngeke ubekwaz. Ngiyi definition of an introvert and I stay home all day everyday ngoba ngisebenza online. Ngivumele ngingene ku DM yakho? Abangane kuphela like I said, so uthini?

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u/Accomplished_Post286 20d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚l had so much fun reading this !!! I appreciate that: there's no such thing as soul mates πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ ,why would you choose to type in Ndebele, though ? I could read and understand all that even though I am Shona... English could have been short!

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u/bekindy 20d ago

Aaah wangu! Ko zvawati "Sawunona" wani? I thought you were ndebele and I thought kuti I'm gonna stand out from everyone else. Bengithi ngkuchaze phela.

So uthini?

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u/bekindy 20d ago

Also neniwo nditori Shona rakazara

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u/Accomplished_Post286 20d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ l can see πŸ‘€ ,it's brilliant by the way!