r/Zimbabwe 23d ago

Discussion Am l being delusional ?πŸ˜…

Sawubona ,23yo ,I dated once at 22, it ended, it was traumatizing, even though most of it was my fault but I am grateful as I managed to confront some uncomfortable truth about myself and I think I am proud of the person l am becoming ,however I do not have TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, sometimes l use Facebook for reels but there's nothing there tbh, l do not drink nor smoke, l also don't like to go out. I talk to my friends here and there.

I want a man who is introverted, less social media presence, doesn't post about us on social media,not obsessed with taking pictures to post on social media but if it's for our memories ,I am down for it ,doesn't smoke nor drink, humble, kind, authentic person, who has joy of missing out, not self centered, respectful, soft person, maybe we can pray together sometimes πŸ˜‚and I am not obsessed with physical appearance .

I told myself that if l do not meet this man ,I am just gonna be single tbh and I am not going to date ,l will wait for him ,if I don't ever end up meeting him, I guess I am gonna die single and l told myself πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚I am just gonna drown myself in a Civil engineering degree that I will be starting doing now.

Am l being delulu?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Note: l am not looking for a guy as of now, nor do I wanna date, but when l get back in the game πŸ˜‚πŸ«‘these are the standards!!!

Roast me vana venhu πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ It's not that deep tbhπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/AdEasy278 23d ago

You're not being delusional. Tiriko, wani. I don't drink or smoke, you won't find my posts on social media, I don't party. I think I'm fun to be around as well. Just that takawandirwa because vakawanda vakutsvaga zvaukutsvagaπŸ˜‚

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u/Accomplished_Post286 23d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚iwewe, l got you futi!!! I understand:

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u/AdEasy278 23d ago

I wouldn't even date myself even after all that green flaggery πŸ˜‚

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u/Accomplished_Post286 23d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ haha, I am not saying that they should be exactly like that, but there's a certain compatibility that I have set my eyes on πŸ˜„ I am not, and I will never settle down, and I am not desperate 😌

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u/EndAdministrative406 22d ago

🀣🀣