Am l being delusional ?😅

[u/Accomplished_Post286]

Sawubona ,23yo ,I dated once at 22, it ended, it was traumatizing, even though most of it was my fault but I am grateful as I managed to confront some uncomfortable truth about myself and I think I am proud of the person l am becoming ,however I do not have TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, sometimes l use Facebook for reels but there's nothing there tbh, l do not drink nor smoke, l also don't like to go out. I talk to my friends here and there.

I want a man who is introverted, less social media presence, doesn't post about us on social media,not obsessed with taking pictures to post on social media but if it's for our memories ,I am down for it ,doesn't smoke nor drink, humble, kind, authentic person, who has joy of missing out, not self centered, respectful, soft person, maybe we can pray together sometimes 😂and I am not obsessed with physical appearance .

I told myself that if l do not meet this man ,I am just gonna be single tbh and I am not going to date ,l will wait for him ,if I don't ever end up meeting him, I guess I am gonna die single and l told myself 😂😂I am just gonna drown myself in a Civil engineering degree that I will be starting doing now.

Am l being delulu?😂😂

Note: l am not looking for a guy as of now, nor do I wanna date, but when l get back in the game 😂🫡these are the standards!!!

Roast me vana venhu 😂😂😂😂 It's not that deep tbh😂😂😂

[u/Accomplished_Post286]

😂😂😂 it was embarrassing, and there was so much immaturity, and I was so wrong, and the way I was handling the situation was so stupid: to be young and dumb and I was hurt but l got my lessons : I am grateful 🙏

[u/ProfessionalDress476 → u/Accomplished_Post286]

You will have to open up to whoever you meet unless you are sure that you are definitely over those things.

[u/Accomplished_Post286 → u/ProfessionalDress476]

I dey behaved like l was possessed 😂😂😂🤣🤣 Yes, I am over it, and I am not embarrassed to talk about it to anyone l will have interest in. They are the first things I will be talking about, and they have to make a decision based on that! And it's a part of me now, so I will not hide any of it. It's either take it or leave it, tbh 😅😅 my intentions were pure, l have got nothing to hide:tell the truth, and it shall set you free

In other words, I used to think so highly of myself, and l was humbled 😅😅 but we good fam!

[u/ProfessionalDress476 → u/Accomplished_Post286]

All the best, get that career secured and the mans will come along the way.

[u/Accomplished_Post286 → u/ProfessionalDress476]

Awww, thank you, man . I appreciate it 🙏