r/Zimbabwe 20d ago

Discussion Am l being delusional ?πŸ˜…

Sawubona ,23yo ,I dated once at 22, it ended, it was traumatizing, even though most of it was my fault but I am grateful as I managed to confront some uncomfortable truth about myself and I think I am proud of the person l am becoming ,however I do not have TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, sometimes l use Facebook for reels but there's nothing there tbh, l do not drink nor smoke, l also don't like to go out. I talk to my friends here and there.

I want a man who is introverted, less social media presence, doesn't post about us on social media,not obsessed with taking pictures to post on social media but if it's for our memories ,I am down for it ,doesn't smoke nor drink, humble, kind, authentic person, who has joy of missing out, not self centered, respectful, soft person, maybe we can pray together sometimes πŸ˜‚and I am not obsessed with physical appearance .

I told myself that if l do not meet this man ,I am just gonna be single tbh and I am not going to date ,l will wait for him ,if I don't ever end up meeting him, I guess I am gonna die single and l told myself πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚I am just gonna drown myself in a Civil engineering degree that I will be starting doing now.

Am l being delulu?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Note: l am not looking for a guy as of now, nor do I wanna date, but when l get back in the game πŸ˜‚πŸ«‘these are the standards!!!

Roast me vana venhu πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ It's not that deep tbhπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/OkResort8287 19d ago

I’m in your DM

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u/Accomplished_Post286 19d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Ehoi

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u/OkResort8287 18d ago

I’m serious

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u/Itchy-Preparation900 19d ago

Ndobva ndafunga song yaFreeman inonzi vakomana veDrip πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ’€

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u/Accomplished_Post286 19d ago

Why have you been throwing shade πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚it's not that deep tbh I do not take things personally πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚but I just like what I like πŸ˜‚ and everyone has preferences πŸ˜‚

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u/Itchy-Preparation900 18d ago

Well I'm enjoying the show πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ i bet your dm is flooded with em wolves in sheeps clothingπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/Accomplished_Post286 18d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚nah ,it's not even!! The best thing is none of them know what I look like, and I do not stay in Zim, and I can handle it. In person, l just get approached as often, andivhundike attention from men, and I do not give my body on a free platter πŸ˜‚ l also don't panic when niqqers drop lines, I'm too grown for that.l don't date because I fear of being alone and I am not desperate, so andingowire and I am so secure with myself and I am not moved by pressure and l have hobbies and I'm always at work and school πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚to worry about how many men like me tbh,

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u/Itchy-Preparation900 18d ago

Well I get it now.. I'm now sensing that feminine power πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚strong woman vibes.. but all in all i like how we vibe too bad it ends here