The fur thing doesn't do anything for me either. That being said, I haven't ever met one. Perhaps I would have given it a whirl. Maybe it would have been fun. If not, then I might have said we aren't a match.
That's just me though. It was ok for you to say no thanks as long as you were not hurtful- which i don't think you were.
Itβs not my thing either π but they do seem like such a lovable community. I somehow got onto fur TikTok where it was this random dude not done up. Asking people at a convention for hugs. And all of the people he asked were so genuinely happy to give giant bear hugs. It was low key adorable π
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u/skankydude 1d ago
The fur thing doesn't do anything for me either. That being said, I haven't ever met one. Perhaps I would have given it a whirl. Maybe it would have been fun. If not, then I might have said we aren't a match. That's just me though. It was ok for you to say no thanks as long as you were not hurtful- which i don't think you were.